Many of my clients have experienced challenging relationships. Some of the challenges were in the karmic families or birth families and some were in marriages. In karmic family situations, those who carry healed blueprints and reject distortion often struggle early on.  Although their souls had contracts for these struggles, their human child personalities didn’t remember all of the fine details of their agreements. Many of them dealt with distorted parents, which fractured their loving, nurturing childhood expectations and experiences.

As they grew older and chose romantic partners, many of them found themselves in selfish narcissistic relationships. This is by design according to the soul-required experiences. Some of the female clients not only chose narcissistic partners but also chose to marry those partners. They encountered varying levels of distortion including abuse, control, aggression, and oppression, which often left them depleted and broken.  

These narcissistic relationships are not only female transmuters with male narcissists but also involve males transmuters choosing narcissistic female partners. The males in these relationships often found themselves feeling worn out, exhausted, overwhelmed, and shut down. For the males, these relationships were particularly difficult because the over-powering females carried too much male energy and prevented the male counterparts from being in divine masculine energy.  

There are many ways to psychologically describe narcissism but I don’t work in the psychological arena. I view narcissism energetically and trace how the energy affects not only the narcissist but also the other people involved in the relationships. I observe the patterns and energy allocation involved and I read all the soul agreements.  I work with my clients to heal the human ego parts of the experiences, so the souls can transmute the energy and move forward into roles that align with their higher selves and radiate their brilliance. 

These narcissistic energies all played roles in the trajectory for aligning divine masculine & feminine energies in females and males helping the healed divine feminine souls and divine masculine souls to carry the blueprint for yin & yang balance.  This healed blueprint restores alignment to the matriarch and patriarch blueprints all over the Earth both individually and collectively.  

It is all part of the process of returning back to divine order.  The narcissistic parents, helped the souls identify and carry markers for attracting the future partners that had the same unhealed traits as the parents. The unhealed imprints in the energy fields magnetically drew the partners together. The children grow and reject the distortion of the parents, while healing the family line. When they become adults, they marry partners with some of the same traits as their unhealed parents. As the adults heal their shadows and once again reject the childhood karmic family patterns, they remember their power and align with healed divine masculines or healed feminine blueprints holders. 

Now these soul can lead their families with the healed blueprints. They will also attract truly loving divine counterparts and together they will unite in divine unions. Their unions not only hold the blueprints for the healed masculine and feminine templates; they also hold the blueprints for divine love. Their unions are not based on any distortion; they’re based on love for each other and helping their partners grow and experience truly joyful lives. Thank the narcissists in your life for how they helped push you forward and challenged you to step out of your comfort zone to grow. Then release them and the old version of yourself that needed the experiences. Always remember who you are & why you are here!

Namaste,

Anysia