Many of my clients have experienced challenging relationships. Some of the challenges were in the karmic families or birth families and some were in marriages. In karmic family situations, those who carry healed blueprints and reject distortion often struggle early on.  Although their souls had contracts for these struggles, their human child personalities didn’t remember all of the fine details of their agreements. Many of them dealt with distorted parents, which fractured their loving, nurturing childhood expectations and experiences.

As they grew older and chose romantic partners, many of them found themselves in selfish narcissistic relationships. This is by design according to the soul-required experiences. Some of the female clients not only chose narcissistic partners but also chose to marry those partners. They encountered varying levels of distortion including abuse, control, aggression, and oppression, which often left them depleted and broken.  

These narcissistic relationships are not only female transmuters with male narcissists but also involve males transmuters choosing narcissistic female partners. The males in these relationships often found themselves feeling worn out, exhausted, overwhelmed, and shut down. For the males, these relationships were particularly difficult because the over-powering females carried too much male energy and prevented the male counterparts from being in divine masculine energy.  

There are many ways to psychologically describe narcissism but I don’t work in the psychological arena. I view narcissism energetically and trace how the energy affects not only the narcissist but also the other people involved in the relationships. I observe the patterns and energy allocation involved and I read all the soul agreements.  I work with my clients to heal the human ego parts of the experiences, so the souls can transmute the energy and move forward into roles that align with their higher selves and radiate their brilliance. 

These narcissistic energies all played roles in the trajectory for aligning divine masculine & feminine energies in females and males helping the healed divine feminine souls and divine masculine souls to carry the blueprint for yin & yang balance.  This healed blueprint restores alignment to the matriarch and patriarch blueprints all over the Earth both individually and collectively.  

It is all part of the process of returning back to divine order.  The narcissistic parents, helped the souls identify and carry markers for attracting the future partners that had the same unhealed traits as the parents. The unhealed imprints in the energy fields magnetically drew the partners together. The children grow and reject the distortion of the parents, while healing the family line. When they become adults, they marry partners with some of the same traits as their unhealed parents. As the adults heal their shadows and once again reject the childhood karmic family patterns, they remember their power and align with healed divine masculines or healed feminine blueprints holders. 

Now these soul can lead their families with the healed blueprints. They will also attract truly loving divine counterparts and together they will unite in divine unions. Their unions not only hold the blueprints for the healed masculine and feminine templates; they also hold the blueprints for divine love. Their unions are not based on any distortion; they’re based on love for each other and helping their partners grow and experience truly joyful lives. Thank the narcissists in your life for how they helped push you forward and challenged you to step out of your comfort zone to grow. Then release them and the old version of yourself that needed the experiences. Always remember who you are & why you are here!

Namaste,

Anysia

As the holidays approach, most of us are running around buying gifts for friends and family but we don’t always stop and remember the gifts we already have in our lives. The greatest gifts are the ones we cannot buy. The holiday season is a time for us to think of ways we can acknowledge and enhance the existing gifts in our lives.

At the age of seven, I asked Santa for a magic wand. I figured I’d cut to chase and keep his job simple and I thought I had outwitted him, as well. Rather than asking for a long list of things that I might not get, I could use magic wand to conjure up anything my heart desired. On Christmas morning that year, I unwrapped a magic wand but when I waved it, nothing happened. It was just a plastic toy. I was so disappointed that Santa had misunderstood my request and my dream of magically manifesting everything I wanted dissipated like a thin mist. When I grew older, I realized that I didn’t need a magic wand to manifest everything I wanted in life. That wisdom is a gift we all have.

As adults, we can often get caught up in the materialism of the holidays. Our minds are constantly inundated from the inception of Thanksgiving onward with sales and advertisements everyone time we watch a television, read a newspaper, or walk into a store. We’re constantly reminded of all the things we think we want and need and it becomes engrained in our heads, until we visit the stores like programmed robots and buy everything we see.

If we take a step back and look at our lives, we will find that many of us already have everything we need. Many of us have already received the greatest gifts in our lives. These gifts develop and grow, when we share them with others.We may be blessed with gift of unconditional love. We may experience this gift from a partner, spouse, family member, or pet. When we know we’re loved unconditionally, we’re deeply grounded and connected to that source of love.

Some of us may enjoy the gift of perfect health. This gift frees us of all physical, mental, and emotional ailments and limitations. With this gift, we’re able to achieve anything we choose in life.

Family is a wonderful gift that unites us to our loved ones. At times, families may challenge us with their varied personalities and experiences melding into one. Yet, they’re a source of connection and the core foundation for us. Just like leaves on a plant, we’re rooted in our connection to our families.We’re united to our family members on Earth and those is spirit for the experiences they share and the lessons they teach us.

The gift of friendship carries a bond that can sometimes be stronger than family. We often hear the expression, “You can’t choose your family members but you can choose your friends.” Our friends make us smile, give us support when we need it, and are there for us though both good and challenging times. Those who have mastered the art of friendship understand the nature of this gift; before you can have many friends, you need to first learn to be a good friend to others.

Many of us enjoy the gifts of our talents. Our talents are unique skills and individualized assets that add enhance our lives and reinforce our purposes on Earth. We may be talented in the arts, sciences, or athletic abilities just to name a few of the categories. Like the other gifts mentioned, the gifts of our talents are enhanced when we share them with others.

The gift of Divine connection is a magnificent present. The Divine connection bestows a variety of sub-gifts in its wake. It yields joy, love, guidance, compassion, and peace. When we’re connected to the Divine source, our lives are aligned and balanced.

We are all gifted in different ways and the holidays give us a chance to focus on our special gifts.This holiday season, take some time and ponder the gifts you already have in your lives. Think of ways you can develop those existing gifts and how you can share them with others. May your holidays be filled with joy, love, and peace.

Bright blessings,

Anysia Kiel